If people want to help the community then they can do that fine in game. DBOcom already offers help through all of the guides, threads, and support through the
guild recruitment page. We already do help people try to seek help with threads such as
looking for players threads, so the last thing this site needs is for new comers to spam threads begging for help just to kill a super monster or help them in a dungeon. If people are dedicated to this game then they will find a way to get what they want.
As dci260 and many other users have said, if we want the community to unite then we need to start acting like that in game. No use pretending to be a good samaritan on the forums and then go off flaming and causing pointless fights over some silly grudge that people cannot get over. I don't think we should pin the blame on anyone either as we have all added in our 2 cents which is why the community acts the way it does to this day.