okay i followed all the guides and when i patched it showed the size of the patch as 2048M and it kept going after 2048M did i miss a step or something?

Are you refering to the actual client patching or the English patch?

If you are talking about the client patching then after it downloads the latest version of the patch, it will then proceed to install the downloaded patch, just be patient and it'll all work!

If you find it's still not working, then make sure you run the DBOlauncher.exe as an administrator!